The Big Chop!!!!!

I finally did it!  Yups you guess it....THE BIG CHOP!  I did it on 08/26/2011.  What made me do it?  Well I just decided that it was time.  The two textures with my hair length was becoming a nightmare.  Not to mention that I would have been spending tons of $$$ trying to keep it styled and looking nice while in the transitioning phase.  So I was in between a rock and a hard place.  I would either get a relaxer which I didn't want to do or I could BC!!!! So I walked through door #2. 

Just before I did the big chop I measured my hair and it was a whopping 15" long.  My first reaction when I chopped was what in the world did I just do.  But afterwards (upon styling etc.) I said to myself awh it looks really great!  Three days later and I can't keep my hands out of my head.  I have so many curls and my hair is stronger and healthier.  I can tell you this though, with my hair being the length that it was doing the BC is definitely NOT for the faint at heart.  It was a radical move and I'm loving every minute of it. I had a part two to my Big Chop video but It was too big to upload via YouTube :(

When you decide to do your BC ask yourself why you are doing it.  Are you doing it because you think natural hair is a "fad?" or Are you doing it for a lifestyle change?  Know why you're starting your hair journey and then after figuring it out enjoy the journey!

Totally Natural and Loving it!
--Beautiful Naturalista ;)

Bad Hair Day ;(

So as I continue month 4 of my natural hair journey what have I run into....yups you got it A BAD HAIR DAY!! I knew that this day would eventually be on the horizon but I didn't know that I would run into it this fast! Who was my savior?  GOODY HAIR ACCESSORIES! I ran to the nearest Target that I could find and ran down to the accessory isle.  It is back to school time so the items were picked over...ugh.  Luckily, I found what I needed ;) I was able to get things to hold my think and transitioning locks in tact.  I know that there will be other days but I'm just glad that I was able to find what I needed for this adventure. 

Let me know what you all have done to conquer your bad hair days!

Introducing Beautiful Naturalista

My hair has endured the chemical treatments of a curl and relaxer.  I remember that my hair broke off when I had a curl because I treated my hair horribly!  My grandmother then, behind my mother's back, put a relaxer on top of my chemically curled hair.  My mother almost died because my hair could have fallen completely out!  Surprisingly, it didn't.  It was then that my mother decided to keep a closer eye on caring for my hair.  While in middle and high school, I was always told by my friends and other female students, "Your mama do hair? You're so lucky!"  I never really saw what the big deal was about the matter.  I never really understood the struggles that we as African-American women faced with our hair.  Therefore, I never saw it as being significant because I never experienced the struggle.  I never really saw nor appreciated the "red carpet" hair services I was receiving from my mother.

During my college years, I still had access to my mother every weekend.  I never missed a beat!  My hair was thick, strong, shiny, manageable, etcetera.  You know, everything we dream of our hair being.  Graduate school days were no different but I would say that was when I started slacking off on caring for my hair the way it was accustomed.  Resulting in my hair not being as "beautiful."  My mother seeing the condition of my hair became displeased because of the hard work she had invested into my hair to look its best.

Throughout the years, I remember my mother saying "tie up your hair", "stop wearing all those ponytails", and "moisturize your hair."  The list continued but I ignored her to say the least.  I have hair so what's the big deal!  It wasn't until I moved away from home that I understood the importance of hair care.  I struggled throughout the years to find someone that could care for my hair like my mother.  Unfortunately, I never did.  My mother was disappointed about the condition of my hair but I still was not fed up.  I experienced bad chemical treatments and the only thing, in my opinion, that kept my hair from completely falling out was the fact that I did know how to care for my hair.

Finally, fed up with how may hair was dry, breaking, poor results coupled from relaxers along with lack of luster and dwindling fullness, I decided to go natural!  I'm now on the same path that my mother was on years ago...the quest to have my hair looking and feeling its best!

Follow me as I begin my natural hair journey!